Diamond or Road Kill: The value of self and others
What is your self worth based on? How about those around you, how do you determine the value of others? Some would say a persons value is a direct reflection of their impact and effect on others. Arguing that human value, self worth is an addition and subtraction equation that is dependent on others subjective […]
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Where Do You Spend Your Time? Future Tripping, Memory Lane or in the Power of NOW?
Do you spend your time future tripping, rewinding through memory lane or here NOW- living your values and beliefs? Ambition and an insatiable, unhealthy desire to prove myself has informed most of my life investments. Somewhere along the journey I bought into the lie, that I needed to prove my self. That I was either […]
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Relationship Rescue: Drop YOUR Baggage
What if you are the baggage? I mean what happens when you become your own worse relationship enemy? Sinking your own relationship’s? What happens when you repeat the same thing over and over in your relationships? Relationship insanity, of course. YOU, not anyone else is your relationship baggage. You don’t need anyone to rescue your relationships. […]
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Are you eating the breakfast of champions; feedback? Or are you suffering from feedback indigestion or just feedback intolerant?
Feedback It’s the Breakfast of Champions. Yesterday I got some feedback. It wasn’t the feedback I wanted. It came in the form of a four line email from a literary agent. It was short and sweet, “We do not feel we are the right agency to represent your manuscript.” As I stared at the email […]
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Your Words Mean Little When Your Actions Are Screaming So Loudly: Personal Integrity
It really doesn’t matter what BP say’s does, it? The truth is seeping onto our shores and killing our wildlife. The other day I posted the statement, ‘Your words mean little when your actions are screaming so loudly” on Facebook and was surprised by the amount of responses. It struck a chord with my friends. […]
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When the Jukebox Within Needs to be Upgraded.
Does your life Jukebox Need an Upgrade? Mattergaps. I coined the word as a way of describing the difference between what we want and what we have in the important area of our lives. I work in the ‘gap.’ I love the gap. The gap is where possibility exists. In the gap we lust for […]
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The Prison Warden In The Mirror
The Prison Warden In The Mirror We become what we repeatedly do. Being; results from our thoughts and our actions. If you are chained to behaviors, results, thoughts and ways of being that you’re unhappy with, that no longer represent the life you want then it’s time to face the mirror. You my darling, ( […]
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When You Don’t Feel Valued
“After the evaluation he just handed me this and left.” I stared at the scribbled page and then back at my forty-five year old friend. “He didn’t take into consideration any of the things we’ve been doing the past 6 months, all of his comments are about his experience with my team this week.” His […]
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“There is No Try.” Yoda
There is No ‘Try.‘ “Did you say try?” I asked. He smiled. “Right. There is no try.” “Correct.” “Yoda.” He laughed. “Words are culture. If you want to achieve this goal you need to be decisive, deliberate, intentional and conscious. Cut off other possibilities, it’s time to decide. ‘Trying’ is not committing. I’m cool either […]
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Passion; What Are You Curious About?
What if finding your passion is as simple as following your curiosity? Passion. It’s a loaded word. What are you curious about? What can you NOT do? What interests you? What, when you do it makes you feel most like you? To excel at anything we must invest ourselves in it. Mastery is the result […]
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